Wedding photography

I wanted to talk about this for a long time...everytime I attend a wedding I find the whole video & photography process utterly hilarious! I just watch it from the begining to end because it's really amusing and funny....

people laughing nervously,hugging awkwardly,kissing the bride mumbling some bullshit and smiling at the camera,undecided whether to hug or just handshake the bridegroom then finally ending up doing something like a half hug-humping...sweating,fidgeting,hair and dress fixing,nervous laughs and flirts...

It's all a fake...

The wedding day is one of the most important moments of a couple's life...but in here,it's just an acting...cameraman directs and everyone act the way he says...

He says to put the ring slowly,and sometimes to stop halfway to capture a photo,and he says to smile...what the hell?it's your man or woman!you're going to put the wedding ring in her ring finger for the first time and you do it on someone else's command?those people are mad!it's cameraman's job to capture the right moment!why do u pay for him if that d*head can't do his job properly?duh!

And just look at the whole kissing and hugging session...if cameraman couldn't get the pic in the right angle he tells them to hug again,and kiss again...just insane!all acting!no real talk or emotions in those...that happened to me one day.and I had to kiss the groom twice cos my face was covered from the first angle.(not that I minded,he was a one handsome,mind blowing guy! lol)but that was awkward...

And when the cake or milkrice is cut,couple has to hold that whatever piece near his or her mouth,smiling like a complete idiot until the camera clicks!again... Acting!

This system should be changed...I've decided,if I get to marry someone oneday I will only let the photographer take group photos with relations,and several photos of the couple,i.e. Only me and him.no awkward kissing and acting,no poruwa ceremony videos or pics,no cake cutting pics...those should be stored in our minds and recall without embarrassment.

This crossed my mind today cos I'm going to a wedding tomorrow,and to witness the same catastrophe.shame eh?hmm and I hate to attend wedding without the people and relations I like cos it's boring to sit and watch the drama,inhaling the nauseaous perfumes and earsplitting music and all the fakeness sorrounding....hmm what to do...it's a must.i'm glad my brothers going to be there....oki then,c ya.people who's planning to marry soon,just keep this in your mind...it's your day,do it your way!